My soon-to-be-ex just moved out. Can I change the locks?

Technically, yes, since you both live there and own the house you could change the locks. Be aware that this is likely to have unintended consequences. This is the kind of move that can cause some real escalation in the friction and animosity level between you two. Ask yourself how you'd feel if you came back and found the locks changed. If you feel that you absolutely must change the locks, we suggest that you inform your soon-to-be-ex of it as a common courtesy.

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